How to Heal the Lost-Twin Impact
Two souls once decided to spend their life together, and suddenly, for various reasons, one backed out.
Without a trace.
To check if this possibly affects your life in a negative way, the following might provide an answer, as well as a solution.
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Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert (chapter 22):
[…] “Some time after I’d left my husband, I was at a party, and a guy I barely knew said to me,
“You know, you seem like a completely different person, now that you’re with this new boyfriend.
You used to look like your husband, but now you look like David. You even dress like him and talk like him.
You know how some people look like their dogs? I think maybe you always look like your men.” […]
Never Feeling Deep Joy
– might be a symptom
The affected people usually don’t know about thir loss. It’s usually not like a fully grown fetus had been found during birth. Not at all.
But this phenomenon is far more common than it is acknowledged to be! Betweeen 10 to 12 percent of our population weren’t alone during the first months of their life in the mother’s womb. That is a well known fact for physicians being expert in that area. In case the two siblings spent some more time together in the womb, today – thanks to the improved ultrasound technology – medical and alternative-therapeutic circles – at least in Germany where I come from – have become aware of this. But, I can tell that even the top tv series Grey’s Anatomy aired two episodes on this topic! [S10 E13 & S13 E10]
ULTIMATE SIGNS
Many signs for having lost a twin are only tiny hints, like
– Always feeling a unspecified sadness that never disappears
– Something is missing. They can’t tell what.
Substitutes are no match – Scenario A
Solo-born twins never seem to find the right partner –
• Once he/she/ it is supposed to be found, he/she/it turns out to be the wrong one…
or
• they can’t relate entirely to another person, no matter if it’s a partnership or friendship
or
• Staying too long in a relationship/ partnership/ friendship that definitely isn’t healthy, just to be with someone
or
• Feeling lonely within their partnership, claiming the siginificant other does not provide the good feeling a partner should do.
Constantly doubting their life’s purpose – Scenario B
It seems as if they can’t find their meaning of life:
Although being interested in development and new approaches, they remain unfulfilled.
Strong ambiguities on what you truly desire – Scenario C
Friends and partner can’t give what is needed, even if they provide a lot.
It’s either unclear what the solo-born twin truly needs – nor their significant others simply are the ones they need.
They’re kind of not the friends or partners a solo-born twin’s soul deeply longs for.
True Desires of the Heart Unfulfilled Forever – Scenario D
The love a solo-born-twin gets never seems to be enough.
There’s an unsatisfiable longing inside, even though having no idea what’s missing,
– intertwinded with an unspecific feeling of guilt,
– and strong fear of either being bound or loss,
– and inner anxiety and various fears,
– often accompanied by physical problems (such as pain) occuring without medical explanation.
These are just a few examples of “typical” feelings and difficulties which may indicate someone wasn’t conceived as an only child.
Of course, every symptom mentioned above may have other reasons.
In case you are familiar with some of the given experiences, it’s very much possible that you’ve lost a very important soul mate.
How to Become Reconciled
With a Lost Twin
Breakthrough
The moment we’re reconciled with our lost twin, this can provide profound transformation.
Besides finally more understanding our past, our behavior (which already may increase inner relaxation and self-love),
one may also make up for the sublimal grief, anger (someone important let you down!) we haven’t been able to classify for decades.
Happy Endings Finally Possible
The inner dysbalance might perhaps not even having been recognized as such. It’s then time to heal, put that a deep wound to rest that has significantly strong influenced our existence.
Uneasiness eventually can calm down, physical and emotional problems may be reduced or even released, deep relationships are possible, exitisting connections improve.
The sublimal expectation that a partner or friends should replace the lost twin is over.
HOW Will YOU KNOW?
Being an expert on that field, I can recommend the following:
• To get a reading.
• A Quantum Field Scan
• A family constellation, even online.
As I offer all of it, and have A LOT of eperience concerning lost twins, I’ll be there for you.
